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I want to share a YouTube channel that I particularly enjoy around this topic - pardon any possible offense surrounding the channel name - https://www.youtube.com/@hoe_math. There's a lot to unpack about the behaviors surrounding men and women through online dating apps, and just dating altogether nowadays (call it today's dating meta ^_^)

I think whereas much women suffer from maximizing mindset, men suffer deeply on the subsequent rejection they feel after swiping so much and receiving almost none if any likes or matches. A whole industry has been built around profile optimization in response (and for some men, its very much needed, and could be just what's missing to generate success), but the statistics will still play for those few "Catalina" male profiles.

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As a short man, really happy I got married before dating apps were a thing. :)

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